Updated 14 February 2026

"I always lose my earrings": Safety clasps that DO work

Updated guide 2026

"I always lose my earrings": Safety clasps that DO work

If you've lost more earrings than you can count, if you have a collection of "widow" earrings, or if every time you take off your coat you panic at the thought of still having both earrings on, this article is for you . Losing earrings is frustrating, especially when they're your favorites or have sentimental value.

The good news is you're not careless: you're simply using the wrong clasps. In this article, we'll explain which clasps are truly secure, how to use them correctly, and what tricks you can use to never lose an earring again.

Why do earrings get lost?

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One mistake we see daily in the workshop is that earrings get lost for various reasons, and it almost always has to do with the clasp:

  • Loose snap closures: The "butterflies" loosen with movement and the earring falls off.
  • Improperly placed closures: If you don't push the closure in properly, it will come out easily.
  • Snags on clothing or hair: When taking off a sweater, scarf or brushing your hair.
  • Constant movement: If you play sports, dance, or move around a lot, the fasteners may loosen.
  • Worn-out fasteners: Over time, fasteners lose tension and no longer hold well.

If you identify with any of these points, it's time to switch to earrings with safety clasps that actually work.

The most secure earring closures (final ranking)

Not all locks are created equal. Here we explain which are the most secure, listed from most to least secure:

🥇 1. Screw Back Closure

Screw Back Closure

Security level: 10/10

It is the most secure lock available because:

  • It screws onto the post: It requires several turns to remove it, making it impossible for it to fall off accidentally.
  • It doesn't loosen with movement: The more you move, the tighter it gets (due to friction).
  • Visible and easy to check: You can feel if it's on correctly.

Ideal for: Earrings you wear every day, valuable earrings, or if you are very active.

Disadvantage: It takes a little longer to put on and take off (but it's worth it for the safety).

Discover our collection of screw-back earrings in different styles.

🥈 2. Click closure / hinge (Huggie / Hoop Clasp)

Click closure / hinge (Huggie / Hoop Clasp)

Security level: 9/10

This closure is typical of hoops and is very secure because:

  • It closes with an audible "click": You know it's properly closed.
  • It has no loose parts: The clasp is part of the hoop, it cannot be lost.
  • Requires specific pressure to open: It does not open accidentally.

Ideal for: Everyday earrings, earrings for sleeping, or if you want something quick and secure.

Disadvantage: It only works on hoops, not stud earrings.

Explore our collection of earrings with click closures that you won't lose.

🥉 3. Small snap closure (standard butterfly)

Small snap closure (standard butterfly)

Security level: 7/10

Snap-on closures are safer because:

  • They have more gripping surface.
  • They are easier to position correctly.
  • They can be seen and felt when they are properly placed.

Ideal for: Casual earrings for everyday wear.

Disadvantage: They can loosen over time if you don't check them regularly.

4. Without closure (magnetic or clip)

Security level: 2/10

Magnetic or clip-on earrings are convenient but very insecure:

  • They fall off with any pull or sudden movement.
  • They are not recommended for use outside the home.

Ideal for: People without pierced ears who only wear them on special occasions and in controlled environments.

Comparison chart: Which closure is best for you?

Closure Type Security Ease of Use Best For
Screw closure ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐ Daily use, valuable earrings, active people
Click closure (hoops) ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Everyday rings, sleep, maximum comfort
Pressure ⭐⭐⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Casual use, frequent changes
Magnetic/Clip ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ No drilling required, for home use


How to use each type of closure correctly

Even the most secure closure can fail if you don't use it correctly. Here's how to use each one:

🔧 Screw closure: Step by step

  1. Insert the post: Push the earring post through the ear hole.
  2. Place the nut: Screw the nut onto the post by turning it to the right (clockwise).
  3. Squeeze firmly: Give at least 3-4 full turns until you feel resistance.
  4. Check: Try gently pulling on the earring. If it's properly inserted, it won't move.
Tip

If you have long nails, use your fingertips (not the tips of your nails) to turn the nut.

🔧 Click closure: Step by step

  1. Open the ring: Press the moving part of the clasp to open it.
  2. Insert into the ear: Pass the hoop through the hole.
  3. Close until you hear a "click": Press until you hear an audible click.
  4. Check: Gently pull on the ring. If it's properly closed, it won't open.

Tip: If you don't hear the "click," it's not closed properly. Try again.

🔧 Pressure Closure: Step by Step

  1. Insert the post: Go through the ear hole.
  2. Push the butterfly: Press the butterfly firmly against the post until you feel resistance.
  3. Push harder than you think you need to: Most people don't push hard enough.
  4. Check: The clasp should be close to the earlobe (without being too tight) and should not move.
Tip

If the clasp is too far from the earlobe, it's not on correctly and will fall off.

Tricks to never lose your earrings again

In addition to choosing the right closure, these tips will help you:

💡 Trick 1: Check your to-dos several times a day

Touch your ears every few hours to make sure the earrings are still in place. If you feel one is loose, adjust it immediately.

💡 Trick 2: Take off your earrings BEFORE taking off your clothes

Most earrings get lost when you take off sweaters, scarves, or coats. Make it a habit to take your earrings off first.

💡 Trick 3: Use a plate or tray for your earrings

Have a specific place where you leave your earrings when you take them off. That way you'll always know where they are.

💡 Trick 4: Replace worn-out fasteners

If your push-back clasps are loose, buy new ones. Replacement clasps are inexpensive and can save your favorite earrings.

💡 Trick 5: Wear screw-back earrings when going out

Save the push-back earrings for home use, and use screw-back or click earrings when you go out.

💡 Trick 6: Add a silicone "stopper"

Silicone stoppers are small discs that are placed behind the snap closure to add extra security. They are inexpensive and very effective.

💡 Trick 7: Take photos of your earrings

If you lose an earring, having a photo will help you find a replacement or identify it if someone finds it.

What to do if you've already lost an earring?

If you lost one of your favorite earrings, here are some options:

🔍 Option 1: Search for it systematically

  • Check the last place you saw him.
  • Look inside the clothes you were wearing (pockets, sleeves, hoods).
  • Check the ground, your car, your bag.
  • Use a flashlight to search in dark places.

🔍 Option 2: Buy a replacement

If your earrings are from a specific brand, contact them to purchase just one pair. Some brands sell individual earrings.

At PENDELAU we understand this problem, that's why our steel earrings are affordable so you can replace them without breaking the bank.

🔍 Option 3: Turn it into another jewel

The "widower" earring can become:

  • A pendant for a necklace.
  • A charm for a bracelet.
  • A clothespin.

🔍 Option 4: Use it as a single earring

The trend of wearing a single earring (especially large hoops) is in style. You can give your old earring a second life.

Why is steel the best material for earrings you don't want to lose?

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If you tend to lose earrings, high-quality steel is your best ally because:

  • It's affordable: If you lose one, replacing it won't break the bank.
  • It is durable: Steel fasteners do not wear out as quickly as other materials.
  • Maintains tension: Steel screw fasteners maintain their grip for longer.
  • It doesn't rust: Even if you use it every day, it stays like new.

Discover why our steel jewelry for sensitive skin is the smart choice for everyday wear.

Final recommendations: The best earrings that you won't lose

If you're tired of losing things, here are our recommendations:

  • For everyday use: Earrings with screw-back closures. Maximum security.
  • For convenience: Hoops with click closure. Secure and easy to use.
  • For sleeping: Small hoops with a click closure that you can leave on 24/7.
  • For special occasions: Earrings with screw closure and extra silicone stoppers.

Explore our collection of comfortable earrings with the most secure clasps on the market.

Conclusion: Never lose your favorite earrings again

Losing earrings isn't inevitable. With the right clasps, proper use, and a few simple tricks, you can enjoy your favorite earrings without the constant fear of losing them.

At PENDELAU, we design earrings with the most secure clasps on the market, made from high-quality steel to last for years. Because we understand that your jewelry isn't just an accessory; it's part of your everyday life.

Discover our complete collection of stainless steel sets and find earrings you can wear with confidence, without worrying about losing them.

About the Author

Pendelau Team Experts in stainless steel jewelry with several years of experience. Specialized in high-durability finishes and materials for sensitive skin. Our commitment: helping you choose and care for jewelry that lasts forever.